Beauty: An Interpretation, Not a Measurement

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            She was in fifth grade and consumed by her weight loss obsession. Because of this destructive fixation, her doctors diagnosed her with depression at the age of 10. Her poor body image resulted in years of self-loathing. Bailey Hurley’s downward spiral began when her classmates started to tease her. The feeling of being larger than her peers revolted her.  “I would turn the mirror in on the medicine cabinet so it would give me the illusion my body was skinny,” says Hurley. She blamed her overweight parents for supplying an immeasurable amount of junk food. The constant comparison of her body to the girls in magazines manipulated her perception of beauty. For Hurley, beauty was defined by the number on the scale.

Society has cultivated a generation of young women who believe they have to resemble women on magazine covers. Critics believe America has forsaken the realistic representation of women in the media. Contrary to popular belief, research in the last three decades challenges this assumption. The Dove Campaign for Real Beauty is an example of an effort being made to overcome industry prejudice. However, digital manipulation and the utilization of underweight and extremely thin models or actresses still exist. The use of underweight models, especially in runway fashion, is considered an “industry standard.” This benchmark inhibits the minds of young women. The idea of an “industry standard” has paved the road for increases in anorexia and bulimia. Doctors of Philosophy, Lexie and Lindsay Kite write about ‘taking back beauty for females everywhere’ on beautyredefined.net. “While representations of women’s bodies across the media spectrum have shrunk dramatically in the last three decades, rates of eating disorders have skyrocketed”, according to their recent article, Photoshopping: Altering Images and Our Minds.

A recent issue of Seventeen magazine received a lot of criticism for their February cover. Actress Troian Bellisario was commended for the acknowledgement of her eating disorder and the steps she has taken toward recovery. However, in the bottom right corner of the issue read the caption, “Get an Insane Body- It’s Hard, But You’ll Look Hot!” This caption does not provide any inclination that the aforementioned weight loss method is healthy. These two articles indirectly contradict one another, misleading readers.

While magazines covers and the media have a strong impact on young minds, Disney movies and cartoon princesses alter the perception of beauty for adolescents as well. Disney princesses have undergone lots of ridicule because some critics believe they are setting unrealistic standards for young girls. Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs portray Snow White, “in her best character when she is unconscious as an inanimate object. When she is awake and alive, she gets herself into trouble,” according to Cracked, a podcast recorded by Jack O’Brien, Jason Pargin and Kristi Harrison. Snow White represents a vulnerable, naïve and helpless girl whose sole survival depends on her beauty. We acknowledge these misrepresentations and make little effort to transcend them.

Recent controversy regarding Abercrombie & Fitch’s CEO, Mike Jeffries, made national headlines. Jeffries is a shining example of someone who believes in the industry standard. Jeffries raised eyebrows when he informed the public that selling clothes to thin, young and attractive individuals was his ultimate goal. Abercrombie & Fitch Corporation and its subsidiaries abide by the beliefs of their CEO. Their garments in direct correlation with sizing are exceptionally smaller than the norm.

Comedians like Ellen DeGeneres poked fun at the absurd sizing standards the company has established. Mary Briggman, former model for Abercrombie & Fitch, takes on a different perspective. “If the CEO’s goal is to direct his clothing line to a certain, small market segment, as controversial as it may be, then he has that right.” In contrast to Jeffries, not everyone in the fashion industry feels this way. “Beauty can be found in any size or age group. All individuals have the right to model even if they don’t fit the prototype,” says Buffalo designer and photographer Stephen Bales.

Specialist in body image, Kristi Smith of Williamsville, says many of her patients struggle with, “the inability to compete with unrealistic standards.” Unrealistic standards are absorbed through an individual’s surroundings, their environment, the media and idealistic representations like runway models. Smith attributes poor body image primarily to the environment. If a mother constantly puts herself down, her daughter, coexisting in the same environment, will likely do the same. For Hurley, poor body image developed because of her classmates’ verbal abuse. Years later, skinnier and healthier than before, Hurley consistently thinks about her weight. Smith works with individuals struggling with eating disorders such as Hurley’s in an effort to increase morale and foster positive thoughts in stimulating higher self-esteem.

A preconceived notion is engrained in young minds on how you are supposed to look. Hurley let herself be characterized by the number on the scale. Like millions of individuals, she did not consider herself beautiful. Smith assures patients that by seeking help through therapy, inhibitions can be overcome. People like Jeffries put a number on the scale. However, no individual has the right to define what is and what is not beautiful. The encouragement of positive body image, confidence and therapeutic support can take away the stigma of what beauty has become. Inevitably, a scale cannot measure beauty because something intangible cannot be measured.

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Blog Talk

I would recommend writing a blog to anyone and everyone. Even if you’re not the best writer, it is a great way to express yourself and your passion. It enables you to connect with an audience. After surveying all of my posts, I am most proud of my promotion for positive body image. I don’t want my readers to let the size of their clothes impede their daring fashion choices. Audacious fashion is for all sizes. I unexpectedly found enjoyment in the research of my work and pulling my information together. I must say, I was impressed with my initiative. What I found to be challenging was concluding my findings. Most of the time, I wanted to dig deeper and continue with my writing. My subjects were fascinating and I was perpetually enlightened.

Cameron Diaz by Giampaolo Sgura for InStyle Magazine May 2014

A Stairway To Fashion

41 years old Cameron Diaz is the star of InStyle Magazine for May 2014 issue. Gorgeous, sensual and always smiling Cameron was photographed by Giampaolo Sgura and styled by Melissa Rubini. She is the protagonist, alongside Kate Upton and Leslie Mann of the upcoming hilarious comedy “The Other Woman” – three gals end up becoming friends after they discover that they all share the same man, leading up to funny situations since the girls are planning to revenge on the unfaithful guy.

www.astairwaytofashion.com Cameron Diaz by Giampaolo Sgura for InStyle May 2014

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Pandamonium Hosts Buffalo’s Own Style and Fashion Mixer

The setting was a café in downtown Buffalo. Built with brick and greystone, Perk’s Market and Café appeared like a timeless piece of architecture. There were numerable venues considered for this event. One example included The Waiting Room, however, the café set the perfect mood with a modest size and set-up. Perk’s Cafe and Market Style and Fashion Mixer was highly anticipated in the weeks approaching the event date. Hosted by Buffalo’s Pandamonium Entertainment, the event was a long one.

The starting time was set for 6:30 p.m. with an end time for 11 p.m. If you are unsure of what a mixer is, it can be defined as a social gathering that encourages participants to engage with one another and have fun. This particular mixer, organized by Buffalo Designer, Steven Bales, had a slightly unconventional take on the definition. This social gathering included benefits such as networking, endless mingling with fashion enthusiasts, and a VIP section.

While some individuals may be apprehensive to meet and greets, there was no added stress when it came to parking. Fortunately for attendees, parking was one of two things, inexpensive or free if you were lucky. All parking was easily accessible and within close distance of the venue. Set to start at 6:30 p.m., according to Facebook, flyers, and the social media outlets utilized, the café was empty. This does not include a handful of employees diligently setting up. Arriving fashionably late would have been wise advice for all attendees. Between 6:30 and 7:00 when the doors had already been opened, the workers continued shuffling around, checking off last minute “to-dos”. It was in poor taste to blatantly set up with guests present.

With some technical difficulties regarding the sound system, the mixer was off to a rough start. The first hour of the event had few attendees and no music. In addition, the VIP section lined with trays of tempting and mouthwatering hors d’eourves, lacked guests entirely.

The mixer room was outdone aesthetically. The high-top tables were adorned with decadent white sheaths, low-lit candles and a DJ setting in the corner. Upon entry however, the event hosts were prompt in informing the few attendees that the venue was without sound. This was some buzz-kill worthy news. With luck, more people arrived within the second hour. Drinks were being poured here and there but no one was spending extravagant amounts of money.

Bales lined up the VIP table with some of his designs. They were not only stunning, but also soft to the touch. The assortments of graphic tees and tanks were all emblazoned with his logo. The graphics were moderately priced ranging between 15 and $35. With the primary intention to network, Steven utilizes style and fashion mixers to promote his brand.

Pronounced (BAH-lās), Bales Clothing was founded in 2006 by the host himself. Bales started his company from scratch and built it up to what it is today, a reputable and respected clothing company. “I started with less than $200 in my bank account, but you couldn’t put a price on my ambition,” Bales said. His motivation was auspicious. With his drive, beaming smile and charismatic outpouring, it is no wonder why Bales Clothing continues to prosper.

After a few hours, more guests, artists and models arrived. Around 9:00 p.m., the DJ booth had been set up and music was lifting everyone’s spirits. Emily Lyon, a local designer and friend of Bales’, couldn’t speak highly enough of the work Bales has done. “He is so talented and has such a way with people,” says Lyon. She looks forward to all events Bales promotes.

Bales Clothing and Pandamonium Entertainment will be collaborating again in the future. Their Facebook pages continue to grow and more events are being scheduled. Hopefully, future events will get more recognition and draw a larger crowd. It would not be right for Bales’ work to go unappreciated. For future event updates, ‘Like’ Bales Clothing Co. and Pandamonium Enterntainment on Facebook.